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Don't Fret Or Regret:
At the end of the day we are who we are and we should never change for anyone. If someone doesn't like it they need to move on and turn the chapter in the book! Life is too short it worry about what other people think of you, so just forget it! As long as you are comfortable the way you are, that's all that should matter. However when it comes to work you should obey the rules, be yourself but don't disobey! A whole part of living is having fun but we can't if we don't live a good life (money) is the key thing and for that we need a job. Getting a good job comes down to school, paying attention, good attendance, good education results to good job, good pay, happy life. Everyone wants to be able to do what they want with money but to get that you need to have good records at school! So live your life how you want, but remember: Rules are there for you to gain not to make you depressed for feel pressured, so follow and you will learn!
Forget The Bullies:
Every bully is one of you. They have all been bullied once in their life, which is normally why they bully you! They feel they need to get back at the people who hurt them and doing so hurt you. People say it's because they are jealous, or want attention and maybe sometimes it is. But I have seen many situations where the bullies feel like they are getting back at people by hurting you. If you are being bullied you really should tell someone or sort it out because even if it's not that bad after a long period of time it can cause many awful things. Some worst than others so remember: Always tell someone if your being bullied or know someone being bullied because it can result to more than just hurt feelings!
The Struggles Of Being A Teenager:
Every teenager is defined by the way they dress, the way they act, what they like and who they bother with. It's all part of being a teenager. In school you always have those more popular kids who think they are 'pretty' and 'amazing' but that is according to you. Who knows what they think of themselves, they may do but how do we know. They may act like they own the world but it might be just because of confidence issues or something so simple like that. However you have those kids who like reading or are shy so don't talk to many people or maybe they just like getting good marks on tests and homework. What's so bad about that? They are classed as 'geeks' or 'freaks', but facts prove they really ain't! The truth is everyone judges others, for looks or the way they may seem. The 'Un popular kids' say "they are so horrible, I hate them!" but why? Have they actually done any thing so horrible to you it made you feel at your lowest! If so why would they have done it. You complain and make quotes about them but it's not okay if they do it to you? Really, that is low! If you do or say something to someone you should expect it back who ever you are. You may be rich but your not perfect and your certainly not the best. You may be poor but that doesn't mean your dirty and you should put up with bulling or have a bad life, you may have an amazing life! So what's the point in judging some one before you get to know them. They seem horrible but until you really dig deep how do you know? Like the saying "Never judge a book by it's cover" true. You shouldn't....
Take this into mind and think before you say! Otherwise one day it will come back and bite you on your back side, that won't be nice.
Being You
Everyone tries to look and be perfect for the people who couldn't care less, why? Everyone tries to not be judged, but in true facts your the judges. Why can't we just be proud of who we are, wear what we want and be who we want to be without anyone commenting back. Just do it anyway, life goes too quick to try and make yourself fit into society so just let loose and be yourself. Today there are so many people who wear the same things and look the same, that's why we get judged but if we all were the real us maybe that wouldn't happen, who knows!
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